Via text messaging, Brandi told me that she was with a friend down at a bar called Happy Endings (I swear that's the actual name) which is in the heart of Hollywood's bar scene. I texted back, "I'm on my way".
Not surprisingly, the bar was packed with 20-somethings; all young, all beautiful, all looking to "get their drink on". I greeted Brandi with a hug and shook the hand of her friend Chase. Brandi and Chase were already 3 sheets to the wind (I hate playing catch up), but extremely nice and welcoming. I bought a round of drinks for all 3 of us and Brandi and I talked about the friends we both had in common.
As the night continued and the drinks continued to flow, Chase was constantly trying to pull Brandi on his lap. She'd playfully pull away and push his hand aside. This exchange had to have happened probably 15 + times during the entire evening. I got the feeling that Chase had been working on her for awhile now.
Meanwhile, this other guy with the absolute worst British accent ever, kept whispering in Brandi's ear. It was so obvious that it was fake. "Why was this guy trying to speak with a British accent?", I thought to myself. And then it hit me, "Holy shit. This is a fucking ploy to pick up girls who love foreign men with accents".
"She has great tits, eh?"
I spun around in my seat and was eye to eye with the impostor.
So@24: How can you tell? She's wearing a tshirt and a hoodie.
Impostor: Oh, I can tell. They are magnificent. ... You aren't banging her are you?
So@24: No. I just met her tonight. She's a friend of a friend.
Impostor: Too bad.
That's it, fucker.
So@24: Wait, before you go. Come on, the gig is up. You clearly aren't British.
Impostor: Yes I am.
So@24: Come on, dude.
Impostor: Alright, alright. Fuck, I was hoping it wasn't obvious. Girls LOVE it though, I'm telling you. I do it all the time, you should try it.
I turned my back to the guy looked around the bar as I swirled the last few, warm gulps around in my pint. Ever since I had walked in, there was this one short, arrogant-looking guy making his rounds. And always, two steps behind him, was his more attractive girlfriend (always happens that way doesn't it?). He barely acknowledged her, but you knew that they were together. What was with this submissive shit? It bugged me.
I went and grabbed a seat next to Chase and Brandi. Chase was now blatantly "honking" Brandi's boobs. Brandi laughed it off and told him over and over to stop "grabbing her tits". I cringed. Girls calling their own boobs "tits" has always weirded me out.
It was time for me to go. I paid my tab and told Brandi and Chase to hit me up the next time they went out.
Outside, a girl in a tight dress and heels shivered next to me as we waited for the crossing signal to change. When it finally changed, we both started to cross. An expensive looking BMW waiting at the light rolled down its window, "Yeeeeah, girl! What are you doing tonight?" She continued to cross without paying any attention to the cat calls.
BMW Douchebags: Hey! Is that your girl?
I shook my head.
BMW Douchebags: Well, fuck! You gonna get up in that? Ow! Ow!
I took a page from this girl's book and ignored them. I felt terrible for the girl, she obviously heard everything these drunk bastards were hollering.
* * *
As I drove home, I reflected about my evening in Hollywood. Maybe I was just in one of those moods where I get hypersensitive about the little things. Where I nitpick the things that I normally wouldn't think twice about.
But goddammit, the guys I was surrounded by tonight were the guys that I'm ultimately competing with, right? This is the pool that girls in this town are choosing from? Is this what quality girls like Lynn, or Violet or any of my other girl friends are going to settle with when finally they throw up their arms in exhaustion and say, "Well, he's not that bad... he only made two fart jokes." Or is this just something that you have to come to accept as a social norm for this age?
I'm far from the type who only has his horse blinders on for pure romance. I'm not the guy who won't settle until I find "the one". I know it's not all butterflies and sonnets. I don't necessarily want butterflies and sonnets. At least, I don't have to have that now.
But it can't be what I witnessed tonight. Maybe I was just getting forced fed it all too much too soon.
My car radio was tuned into the local oldies station. Ray Charles "Georgia on my Mind" faded in. I gave Ray the benefit of the doubt for a few seconds before I turned him off.
It just didn't seem right to be listening to a song like that on a night like this.
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If I'm out in town boozing I'm not looking for a guy to settle down with. I'm not looking for anything. Guys and alcohol are dicks.
The end.
Sorry you had a bad night. Why the hell was this chick with a guy and meeting up with you? I cant imagine how akward that would have been.
And the name Brandi? wtf???
As someone who as been there, you just take it as part of the scene. The catcalls are dumb and to ignore it is already giving it too much attention. And I agree with with queenbitch on pretty much everything (although my cousin's name is Brandi but even she admits it's a stripper name lol).
I'm sorry you had a shitty night as well and the romance in the world died at the sight of Hollywood. I just realized it really isn't my scene and I moved on to other things.
I hope things start looking up for you soon! Think of all the good food next week. How can you not smile at the thought of garlic mashed potatoes...unless you're allergic to tubers, in which case, I wouldn't even want to be alive. :)
This post made me feel really troubled. I mean, do people actually go to those lengths just to get laid? I guess somehow I just never opened my eyes to that or have somehow been lucky enough to avoid those kinds of people.
Fake British accent? C'mon man. How about you read a book instead?
Dude, this isn't aimed at making you feel better, but the nightclub scene in my lil town is just a meat market, nothing more. Unless you're out with good mates, it's a waste of time. The crowd of "singles" are either jailbait, tossers or hanging for a shag.
And betcha they dress better in Hollywood :D Here it's a whole lotta surf gear. Hahahahahaha
Sorry you had such a bad night, but I do not think that the club scene has ever been alive with romance, so it is not that it really died that night - it's just that you noticed how bad it really is. It is strange that Brandi brought a boy with her to meet you, especially a boy that is quite obviously into her. How offputting is that? You couldn't even get to know her. Ugh.
Sadly, this kind of male behavior still holds true, even for men in their late twenties (only they've realized by then that the fake accent doesn't work, but try to woo women with their high-paying job in finance while forgetting to mention that they still live at home with their parents!)
It's the oddest thing, some guys are complete assholes and they get away with it, and they get the girl too. Then there's guys like me stuck going home alone every night.
There better be some big karmic retribution in the after-life, or I'm coming back and haunting all those dirty pricks.
I love guys with American accents, but only real American accents! And yeah it's lame when people holler out of cars at you.
Sorry you had a bad night. You do have some great insight though.
Good luck :)
Those guys will all (well, a few) will figure it out. Just be happy you figured it out a long time ago.
Jesus, sounds like you were surrounded by assholes that night! The sad thing is a lot of girls like it when guys are assholes, for whatever reason. I don't know if they like being degraded or what, because that's what these guys do. Sometimes the whole idea of dating / relationships / guys makes me sick. At times like these I don't mind being single at all. (But I haven't given up on the idea yet that somewhere out there there is a nice smart funny guy who is respectful and will like me for who I am. [/sap])
And well, 'exotic' accents can be sexy, but fake 'exotic' accents? Not so much.
Wow, that is depressing. I wonder if you just had a bad night/bar choice? Some nights at my very favorite bar are filled with guys like this. They gotta go somewhere, right?
So, what about Brandi? Did you like her?
And it totally bugs me too when girls say "tits".
"Is this what quality girls like Lynn, or Violet or any of my other girl friends are going to settle with when finally they throw up their arms in exhaustion and say, "Well, he's not that bad... he only made two fart jokes."" Yes, this is exactly what happens too many times. This is why I'm not into going out anymore and probably why I'm still single, because I have not met one quality man who is what he says he is who is single as well. It's rough out there.
And I have to say, there is NOTHING worse than the cat calls. As an attractive woman, I don't even have to be wearing anything skanky to get this. It's disgusting and disrespectful and totally not worth the effort of going out. Hell, I'd rather just have my friends over to my place for some drinks and NES ;)
Some guy up here kept talking to me with a fake Australian accent, until I called him out and he confessed he was an actor from Booklyn. hahaha
Seriously though-most people out at the bars are rank. The decent folk are found elsewhere. Its nice to hear a guy actually give a sh!t though-what a change :)
Going to a bar to meet chicks (or guys) is the worst idea. Everyone is so fake, full of bullshit, and smarmy up the ass. Women are blinded by liquor and low self-esteem and men are pumped with bullshit and beer. It's just a bad scene, all around. Sorry you had a shitty night. Hopefully your next outing won't be so awful.
Some guys can be REAL classy, can't they? (Major sarcasm.) Not all girls fall for idiots like that or even bother to flirt with them. They see them for what they are: disgusting [insert explicative here] jerks.
Hope you have a better night out next time around.
Oh. My. God. That place sounded disgusting. It seriously sucks that you had such an awful night.
1) Chase is disgusting.
2) I think Brandi needs to gain some self respect
3) The other guy has probably realised that a room full of drink females wanting Prince Harry is his only way of getting laid; sober they'd see straight through his accent. Entirely pathetic.
Anyway. I'm there are decent awesome people out there for you but I highly doubt you're going to find them at a bar (I pretty much agree with Belle Ecrivaine's opinion on them).
The perfect song for you night would have been Limp Bizkit's Break Stuff.
Here's the thing in society: men generally mature at a slower pace than women and that's accepted as the norm, and that's why those guys' behavior, while boorish, is still implicitly accepted by society, whereas if a girl would do that, society would say that something's wrong with the girl. Boys will be boys and girls will be careful.
Unfortunately, what you described is not an atypical night in Hollywood. Or any trendy LA borough, for that matter. That's why you have to ship the good ones in.
There is nothing more frustrating than having a really good conversation with a girl at a bar and some guy come up and make some stupid remark and walk away with her.
I would put all of the blame on guys - but they wouldn't be doing it if it didn't work, right?
I do firmly believe that romance, for the most part, is dead. It makes me sad, but there is very few guys in the world who have the attitude you have. (That's a terrible generalizations, and perhaps we're both just hanging out in the wrong spots!!)
Also, I have a friend that has a fake Australian accent..the 'Quasi Aussie' we call him. He gets a lot of girls with that accent and I think it's terrible!!
I know it's depressing, but the upside is that you're a diamond amongst the coal.......
you know its odd, I met The Boyfriend (again, we'd met about 4 years prior at a party) at a bar and he's nothing like this. Actually he probably couldn't be if he wanted to. so im just letting you know, that not all women who saw you in that bar that night assumed you were a douche.
I also think it's weird when girls call their boobs "tits."... Nice job calling out that fake British guy. What a wanker.
Whoever you end up w/ is going to be very lucky. You'll find her, don't worry.
Everyone must be an actor in Hollywood.
You are posting everything that we have to deal with on a regular basis and the reason why girls go for much older guys.
Look at what's out there!!!!!!!!!1
Expect to hear a lot more British accents since Robert Pattinson has gotten so huge.
Trust me, I'm looking forward to it.
I immediately rolled my eyes when I saw that you went to Happy Ending. I absolutely hate that place, mostly because of the frat party vibe. I've only been there once, but it was enough to keep me away. Unfortunately, that is a good representation of the pool single women in LA can choose from. Needless to say, I'm happy I'm not single! Your odds are up though since you're a good guy :)
It's a catch-22. Obviously, there are nice guys like you lurking out there... but it's only the jackasses who hit on us. This is why you constantly hear single girls (like me) moaning that there are no decent single guys left. Because the losers are some prominent in our field of vision at every turn.
Sometimes I wonder how anybody finds anyone in such a sea of craziness.
Story of my life, whenever I go out with any sort of intention of pursuing a girl, I end up being surrounded by the lamest assholes who for some reasons end up being the ones who leave the place with someone.
at this point I stick to going out with my buddies and having a good time--that's my first priority--and if anything comes out on top of that it just adds to the good night.
sorry you had a crappy time.
and hey, you went to uw? as in the university of wisconsin-madison? That's where I'm at, best time ever!
Rought night, man.
Hang in there, for the most part those are the guys you're competing with...on both coasts, but keep in mind the girls who go for it and don't see through the shit aren't the ones you want anyhow.
And you should have listened to Ray, especially on a night like that...we have to be reminded that it's out there sometimes. Go listen to it now.
Oh gross, I can't believe he used the fake accent. That's just...wow, gross!
Yup. I too live in SoCal, accurate dipiction of the scene...and then people turn around and ask you why I'm still single, as if to say: look at all these winners your surrounded by.
Clearly, they've become immune to the asshole-ism that is plagueing SoCal...
it's a sad sad fact of life that girls are more attracted to douchebags than to nice guys
When I think of someone using a fake accent I think ew, gross, & he must be an immature douchebag. I can't believe girls actually fall for that crap. And Brandi needs to get some self esteem or something to be letting her friend grope her "tits" like that. Unless she was wasted. Then I guess I can't say much b/c I've done my fair share of dumb wasted stuff.
Eh, maybe it was just "Happy Endings"?
I'm not a girl who falls for that crap. I like genuine guys, and I can't believe any male - who isn't completely retarded - would think ploys like those, especially the cat-calling, seriously work.
Sorry your night turned to crap. =/
You were at a bar in the heart of the Hollywood bar scene?
I don't know if the people you encountered on this particular night are really representative of the larger 20-something crowd.
Did I tell you about the time I unwittingly adopted a faux-British accent after drunkenly talking to a drummer from Britain after his show?
Talk about embarassing...especially after his bassist friend totally called me out.
Awkward...
Wow, living in the big state of SC, I've never experienced anything close to that. Not saying that SC doesn't offer high quality entertainment of that sort. Just. . . sayin.
Also? Brandi may be a stripper name, but Brandy is the name of a super fabulous drink. Also, just sayin.
I'm coming to LA in January. You and I are having drinks.
(Side note: Admittedly, my boyfriend has the british accent and it is rather hot. End side note)
I hate HATE guys like that. The ones who try too hard. Who are just...awful to girls. It's good you left. You don't need to associate with people like that.
And as for mister honky bmw driver, you should have made some funny remark to the girl. We like that. We hate when guys yell out the window.
i can see how disappointing that would be. Its unfortunate that girls dont realize what they want usually until later in life.
Settling makes my stomach turn to think about
Man you've got a lotta comments :)
Anyways...
Those kinda guys are your average bar guys. I (and pretty much every other girl) have been dealing with them for most of my life. The sad fact is that lots of girls love them.
The fake accent thing - it's done more than you think. And evne horrible ones can work.
Hangin there. You're a good guy, you'll find a worthy girl.
What an idiot! Faking a British accent? I get trying to nail a girl for a one night stand, but to go to such lengths as to fake a crappy accent is as bad and transparent as telling a girl their family owns a Ferrari dealership in venice beach.
the guy was seriously trying to talk with a fake british accent? oh wow. that's just a little much, haha. like i've known guys that have done it as a joke just to get a laugh out of a girl but not seriously trying to convince her.
by the sounds of it girls should be falling over you and your non douchebagness,seriously ladies what are you waiting for? :)
SO I posted about this a few days ago. It seems that these guys are everywhere.
Obviously the fact that you even notice this behavior in other guys doesn't make you one of them. Which in my book is a very big compliment to you.
Guys in Miami, are even worse than the stories you just posted. Seriously, I am thinking about relocating just so I can meet a nice guy instead of 45 douchey ones.
Yeah... the honking? The lewd leering? The suggestive comments? Welcome to a regular night in the life of a lady. Pretty fucking obnoxious.
And seriously... you are NOT competing with those dudes. I would never date someone like that and I'd hope most quality women wouldn't either. Gross.
p.s. I used to know a guy who did the fake British accent ALL THE TIME. He swore he "picked it up" when he spent two weeks in London like ten years before. I guess he thought it made him seem sophisticated, but it just seemed sort of pathetic.
p.s. It's always interesting to me when guys complain about these asshole guys getting all the girls. The truth is that the only girls they're getting are the vapid, size 2 bottle-blondes who haven't picked up a book since Hop on Pop. Maybe if these "nice guys" were actually looking for a "nice girl" they wouldn't go home empty-handed every night. Just a thought, dudes.
There was this SNL sketch where Tom Brady and an "nerd" were sexually harassing women in the workplace. Tom Brady's actions were always ignored, not too far off from real life.
I can't believe there are really guys out there who use fake accents to pick up girls. Oh wait, yes I can. Gross.
You're not competing with these guys. There is no competition.
Get away from the bar scene, SO. These people are obviously not your crowd and they obviously have lower expectations for what passes as "attractive" or "polite".
Hit up some of your quieter-type friends. It might not sound as awesome as a night out in a sleazy bar but from your description but at least you don't lose your faith in humanity.
This is exactly how it is out there, unfortunately. Eventually, I think that the girls falling for this grow up and grow out of it, hopefully. At least the quality ones do. I hope I can say the same for the guys, although I've yet to experience it. It seems like even most of the "Nice Guys" have a tiny hidden douchebag inside of them.
Them = douchebags.
You = sweetness on a stick.
Guess which one real women want ?
i am glad that someone else seesd the selection of men (men being a word used very loosely) out there! this is what i'm talking about!! i am convinced i will be single 4 eva. refer to my blog. mm hm.
uhm.. what if a chick calls her boobs ..."boobs"? "cha chas"? "breasts"?
i am glad that someone else seesd the selection of men (men being a word used very loosely) out there! this is what i'm talking about!! i am convinced i will be single 4 eva. refer to my blog. mm hm.
uhm.. what if a chick calls her boobs ..."boobs"? "cha chas"? "breasts"?
This is the exact reason I have started not taking anyone who is out at a bar seriously for dating. I think I just accepted this behavior when I was in college as crazy college times but in the upper 20s it is starting to get old and very frustrating.
I don't really like the club scene. I prefer small pubs where the music isn't as loud, it's not so crowded, people talk to each other - all that sort of thing.
That’s the bar me and Phil and Nico went to that time when you were “moving”. It’s kind of lame, huh?
good god SO - where the heck and who the heck are you hanging with?!?
as a bona fide Person Older Than You, i can at least guarantee that it gets better. girls go into those kinds of bars expecting 90% of the men to be douchey, so it's not shocking or particularly off-putting when they are... i mean, hell, we willingly went to the bar in the first place, right? so most women - aside from the insecure ones who continue to need the attention, regardless of whether it's positive or negative - stop going to that kind of place after a while.
the other good news is that most girls i know are not interested in dating boys like that. maybe ill-advisably / drunkenly hooking up with them... but not dating. YOU're the type we date :-)
I don't miss being single for that reason. There are some guys that are just complete douche bags and it is so good that you aren't anything like that and you realize how ridiculous it is. If a girl thinks or wants those guys, then you don't want that guy!
If I've learned anything from The Hills it's that girls in Hollywood (and maybe everywhere) like jerks.
They want a guy to ignore them so they can have "the chase" but then be theirs once it's over.
Stupid. Girls are stupid. Including myself.
You're not going to find her at a place like that. Don't you have hobbies or places to go where normal people hang out?
God, that sounds horrible.
Sometimes all the shits surface at once.
Good thing you were there!
try going out on the town in central nebraska.....booze+nebraskan men+=my choices are slimming.....
This post is one of the reasons why I'm still single....
i've been to happy endings, and although it's much fun, it's probably the bottom feeders of the world at best that are going there to work their magic...
did you try to snag a lobster?
Really? The guy was using a fake Bristish accent? I mean, what if he actually fell in love and had a relationship with a girl he picked up like that? What a douche!
yep, and i totally linked to the meh article on gawker? defamer? one of those, a few entries back. I'VE ARRIVED!!!!
You're post sounds really familiar...thats what happens when you mix alcohol and assholes. it seems like it's become a norm for guys to yell embarrassing comments at girls as they drive by, it's sad.
I'm sorry it was a bad night for you. Obviously Brandi wanted that guy to touch her- because if it had been me, I would've slapped him right from the beginning. And just to let you know you seem like the kind of guy who will find someone/romance, but just not in the club scene. It's hard to find genuine people there.
Your entry reminded me of why I hated going to the bars in college...i'd rather go bowling or hang out with friends these days...
A lot of people are just lame. Sometimes girls like guys like that--when they're feeling lazy and just want something uncomplicated--and other times they don't. It's not necessarily a sign of the end times for romance forever. Chin up!
unfortunately there are a lot of stupid people out there and alcohol can bring out the worst in them. There are a lot of lame cat calls, people pretending to be things they are obviously not, and other randomness, but if you just ignore it it does seem to get better with time.
There are plenty of good people out there, but they tend to be quiter then the d-bags so it's the d-bags get noticed.
Do guys like that get girls? Yeah, they probably get a few, but woul;d you even want to be with the kind of girl who would fall for that crap.
Lastly, I promise you that as you move into your late 20's and early 30's girls are DONE with those guys. All they want is to find good guys and so guys like you are getting all the ladies while those d-bags are now the creepy 30 year old hanging out at the same bars at hitting on 21 year olds!
Be thankful that you will never be like that!
Sadly those are the guys that are in LA... and double sadly we do settle for them :(
Luckily for girls like me, this is why there are guys like you. Sure, there are shitty, like the drunk douches that you had the displeasure of meeting last night (there are shitty girls too who turn everything into a big ol' mess and think the world revolves around them). Then there are guys like you. Why do you think so many people read your blog? It's nice to be reminded that guys like you are out there :)
No, no. You're right. Those guys are assholes. Agh this whole post just pisses me off.
This whole post just explains why I like to stay around home and walk to my favorite local dive bar. It also explains why I usually go for the shy, awkward guys.
Hey I'm a new follower of your blog. I totally used to be that girl, as in I would let that type of stuff happen to me because I just assumed thats how all guys were.
Not that I still don't believe that most guys do act that way thinking girls are going to fawn over them because most 20-something guys are still stuck in reliving their undergrad days. But I know deep down most of us (ladies that is) are not looking for the drunk bastards that feel our boobs up at the bar or try to get us drunk to make that next step above friendship happen.
We want the realistic romance too, it just sometimes seems like it will never happen, so we submit to the negative attention in order to get by until something real comes along.
you know, brandi and chase may have (or had) something on the side... or he's just handsy. I've known guys like that. It's annoying.
I wonder, do you nitpick to feel better about your situation? Like.. find things that annoy you just so you may feel less disappointed? I know I do it.. and I'm wondering how prevalent the behavior is.
And D-bags suck. If a girl goes for them it's usually because she has self-esteem issues or is trying to get somewhere, through the d-bag supposed connections. Girls like that aren't worth the time until the grow up some more.
This is a great post.
It also explains why dating scares me. I can't tolerate 95% of the guys at places like that... and I'm truly a tolerant person.
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In this situation, you should be the knight in shining armor who saves us from these crazies. The last thing we want when too drunk to think clearly is creepster hitting on us. If you dont stand up and say something... we start to wonder if these are the only kinds of guys on the market. sadness.
Yea thats the kind of place I stay away from, partially because I'm now in my 30's but also due to that awful behavior! Glad you see that its ridiculous. You're one of the good ones.
Happy endings make me giggle
It's amazing how guys think we're so impressed by things that are so obviously bogus....there's really nothing better then a guy being himself - call me crazy but to me THAT'S sexy!
yea you just described every bar scene i've ever witnessed in my life after moving to chicago.
i never went to bars before i got divorced...
and you just described the reasons why i don't go to bars and why i'm happy i met joe some other place that's not a bar.
I am so glad you see things this way too. Seriously, what is it with Hollywood guys and British accents?? I notice guys always start sounding more and more British after more and more drinks and they think I don't notice. Please!
You are a quality kind of guy so don't think you have settle on girls who fall for that crap. I mean, I know Lynn is a hard act to follow, but I promise, she's out there somewhere. ;)
Bitches be crazy...
my friend...
it died a long time ago!!!
and yup... best religious blog... can you believe that???
lol!
At least you can be happy that you must have looked like a damn knight on a white horse compared to all the rabid, horn-dog pricks that were surrounding you.
Yuck.
I don't miss the bar scene and any of those bastards at all.
Now, I've been pretty drunk in my day, but I've NEVER been that assholeish. Those guys suck.
You need to get out of L.A.
I had no idea you were a feminist. I'm impressed - you're such a catch. Sadly, I suspect the girls who go to that bar do so to get hit on by men and accept that it'll probably be full of assholes. For some the attention of an asshole is going to be better than no attention...
Totally with you on the 'tits' front; I also cringe whenever I here a girl refer to herself as a 'chick'. These terms, for me, are really demeaning.
I totally agree you need to get out of L.A. And honestly, I wish I had one night that wasn't like this. Sad, but true!
thank you for hating when girls refer to their own boobs as tits. i have always hated hearing my fellow females use crude slang. it's not lady-like and all that, but seriously? tits? c'mon ladies.
Wait, fart jokes aren't funny?
Ugh I know what you're saying. Sometimes you wonder why they let some people out in public
I'm new here by the way but I love your blog! I also think it's true what you say about not being all "butterflies and sonnetts" but at least one OR the other would be nice :)
Hi, this is the first time I've read your blog. It's really refreshing/comforting to see that there are men in the world who aren't complete and utter offensive c*nts in the world like your good self!
Unfortunately, they exist the world over. I'm a British woman living in Spain, and I've actually been called "fea" and "puta" (ugly and whore - go figure) for ignoring these pathetic catcalls.
Keep up the great writing, and good luck in starting over at 24.
From a 24 year old females point of view, it's all fucking pathetic. I can't even go to the grocery store in Hollywood without being accosted by some random douchebag. The bars can be bad, you're right. I've stopped going.
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