Tuesday, December 25, 2007

I See Her Tomorrow

Tomorrow will be the first time I will have seen my ex-girlfriend in over a year.

And if I'm going to be totally honest with myself (which why wouldn't I, it's my fucking blog), I'd say that I'm cool. Calm. Collected.

I was expecting butterflies, bundles of nerves, bloody nubs where my fingernails used to be, or even my meeting tomorrow to be the only thing occupying my thoughts all day.

But it really hasn't. I would be lying if I didn't say that I am a bit excited, but certainly not to the degree I would have expected.

It will certainly be interesting to see what happens tomorrow.

33 comments:

dater xtina said...

good luck with everything tomorrow? :)

btw, are you in the PNW right now? lol

Jamie Lovely said...

I hope everything goes well!

BottleBlonde said...

Good luck, kiddo. I'll pray for you.

IvyReject said...

Eek....Good luck. I'm certainly not ready to see *my* ex next semester.... :(

Michelle said...

wow. hope everything goes well...? you're braver than i am. i'm definitely not ready to see the ex again.

Anthony said...

Good luck today. As someone who did pretty much the exact same thing last week, it's a little strange. Though it sounds like you're ready for it.

nicoleantoinette said...

Oh wow, good luck! I can't believe you haven't seen her in a YEAR- that's pretty admirable.

Hazel said...

good luck! it's always a little nerve racking to see that person who once was your everything but now isn't again for the first time. I bet as soon as you see her, you're stomach will do a little flip.

keep us all posted!

tiff said...

good luck! you won't need it.

Susie said...

Wow, good luck!

I just ran into my ex at a bar the other night after not seeing him for 7 months. When my friend first told me he was there, I first thought "omg, must run and hide now!" But we ended up talking and our two groups of friends hung out all night. And I was sooo cool with it. Obvi a little awwww I miss the good old days, but overall MUCH better than I thought!

Let us know how it goes :)

la ebria said...

Good luck! It can be weird to see exes in a non-romantic context, but if it goes well it's nice to know that you can stay friends in spite of things.

Passionista said...

I know this already happened, but what's for leaving us hanging? How and under what circumstances are you seeing Lynn? I know how weird that is! But don't worry, play it cool, and don't give her more than one compliment, it's weird.

sequined said...

Oooh I can't wait to hear all about this tomorrow!

The Ex said...

I'm looking forward to the post about boning her.

Blake Redgrave said...

Don't forget to wash your labia before you see her.

Drunken Chud said...

i had something poignant and heartwarming to say, with a hint of motivation... but then blake beat me to it. heh.

Laughing through my chardonnay said...

Good luck, SO. I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you!

Miriam D said...

Oh my, good luck! just stumbled on your blog and I love it! hope things go well.

The Charming Hedonist said...

Good luck 24! You'll be great!

One Wanker said...

Don't worry about it -- although it has probably already occurred by the time you read this.

If nothing else, you pull yourself through it or fall for Beth or find someone else -- fish in the sea and all that usual crap that people spout in times like these.

Anyway, to warm your heart -- and maybe inspire you -- I have yet another girl to add to the "UN Model" -- although she is another English girl -- so they'll have two delegates.

And I met her on Xmas Day -- I'll blog more about it after our first date tomorrow.

Good luck son!

Katana said...

my ex nd I try to meet up once in awhile just ot catch up. I'm always a little excited to see the man tha ti spent my youth with - just ot see how he grows, and how much he's changed. Somehow it's a reflection of me and how much i've grown since the last time I saw him....

but keep in mind that she's an ex, so don't go goo-goo eyed and weak in the knees. Just friends, right?

a london adulterer said...

so how did it go?

The Clumsy Chatterbox said...

It's now December 27th...which means this event happened in the past! We're all dying to know how it went! I hope flawlessly!

ToKissTheCook said...

It is more than a little sick that I am in sunny Mexico wondering how it went with Lynn. I'm disgusted with myself and yet will check on you again tonight.

Valerie said...

Good luck!!

Hex said...

It's kinda funny, whenever I open this blog and see that this is still the last post I can kinda hear cliffhanger music playing in the background as I wonder how all of this went.

Hope it was good.

Dun-dun-daaaaaaaahhhhh!

Laughing through my chardonnay said...

You're killing me SO! Killing me! What happened?

oestrebunny said...

so how'd it go then?

Girl in a Guy's World said...

Patience isn't a strength of mine. So come on already!

a london adulterer said...

Silence.....could mean everything or nothing(?).

heartslam said...

He's not coming back. They've totally eloped, I bet.

phishez_rule said...

Ok. I just found you and I'm already on the edge of my seat. What happened?

Little Miss Chatter Box said...

i know i'm WAY behind, just found your blog and i'm catching up-i'm reading from the begining--but a funny story about seeing my ex for the first time over a year after we broke up...

my boyfriend and i are out with his friends, i was under 21 at the time so i'm the dd. we go to a bar i couldnt get into but they were serving free drinks for an hour. i tell them to go in i'll wait in the parking lot (i'm so awesome i know!) but we leave to go somewhere i could get into. we pull into the parking lot and i see the exs truck...i make a smart remark and tell the boyfriend to behave. we go in, and it takes a min to find him. i text his best friend (who i'd been talking ot for months secertly so the ex wouldnt freak on him) he comes to say hello and oddly enough went ot hs with my bf. i go say hello and as i am on my way back to my bf they meet me half way and say he's going to meet the ex. i'm think HORRIBLE idea...he walks up, sticks his hand out and says "hey dude i'm (his name here), *shoves pitcher of beer in his face* want some beer man?" and oddly enough they were liek best buds the rest of the nite. it was ODD!!!